Well, I'm certainly making up for lost time...

www.REALationship.com - Marriage Material?

"Based on the test score, Stephanie is showing some signs of someone who could possibly be marriage material. Though Stephanie might not be opposed to marriage, it just might be something she is not completely focused on right now. It may have nothing to do with you; Stephanie is just at an indecisive point in her life. Stephanie could be ready for a more serious and committed relationship should the "right" circumstances come along. There are probably some unclear intentions for Stephanie when discussing marriage and long-term commitment. Two important factors to consider while pursuing a relationship with Stephanie are time and patience. It is okay if Stephanie might have a desire to take things slow. It is also okay if you feel it necessary to ask Stephanie what might be keeping her from thinking about marriage. Always remember you have the right to ask; it is your relationship too."

Couldn't be a more accurate description of my current views on marriage if I had written it myself.

And in the same vein, though you all might not see the connection:

The reason--buried down at the bottom of my heart underneath a thousand other reasons--the deepest reason I broke up with Nate is because I wanted to fall out of love with him before he fell out of love with me.

Frightened. Then and now.

-Stephanie

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