Hoo boy. I am so worried about my friend Rhonda right now. Wow. She's going to get into some serious trouble if she isn't careful.... She just switched to my public school after being private schooled all her life, and she already stepped into the wrongest company, and it is scaring me to death.

There is this guy at my school. He has a reputation for being, in a word, perverted. I've heard lots and lots of stories and have had my own terrifying experience with him. Well... It wasn't anything as drastic as a rape or something, but I'm a very cautious girl and he scared me to death making moves on me.

He makes friends with the girls easily. Smooth-talker. And I suppose he can be friendly. But he is just creepy to me and others like me!

Anyway, Rhonda was always a really shy girl, you know, and tends to be swayed easily. But she's become a rebel, not to mention rather guy-crazy-- to a worrying extreme it seems. :(

Geez, I am not getting to the point here. Okay. Tim is a perv. I've had a bad experience with him and avoid him at all costs usually now. And today Liz said, "Oh, here comes Rhonda.... Uh-oh."

"What?" I asked, not liking the look in Liz's eye.

"She's got Tim."

Oh my word...

And what was worse.... At one point, Rhonda was playing with this pencil of his, and she tapped him lightly on the head with it. Then on the back of the neck. Then down the collar of his shirt. I couldn't take anymore than that. "Rhonda, you weirdo, what are you doing?!" I attempted at NOT sounding/looking scared to death.

She laughed, kind of embarrassedly.

I was in absolute shock. And I still am! I am so worried for that girl! Girl, you better watch yourself or else you'll be losing your virginity WAY before you're ready!

The worst part is, I know she doesn't exactly know what that kind of touching does to a guy. Like I said earlier... You better not be naive around him if you have any sort of set of values or morals about you. And she doesn't have all the information she needs set in her head, and I can't give it to her directly or else she'll think I'm judging her and him wrongly and she'll hate me and everything will absolutely crash! I am so scared for her. :(

So, if any of my friends are reading this, will you please, please, please pray for her?? And perhaps you could pray that God will give me the words/actions I need to be a good example to her. Thank you very much... I just hope I can warn her before it's too late.

-Stephanie

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